It’s necessary, so let’s talk about it

Consent is always necessary before you try something intimate or sexual with someone else. It means you both clearly and voluntarily agree to participate in a certain activity together. That’s not only on Badoo, but in real life as well.

Here are some examples of things that require consent.

• Before you share sexually explicit content, like a photo or video.
• Before sexual activity, which could be over the phone or when you meet up.
• Before any kind of physical contact, especially during Covid.
• Before sending a sexual message.

Asking for consent

• It sounds obvious, but ask. Be respectful and clear when you do.
• Create space for them to answer, then wait. Don’t act first, even if you think they’ll say yes.
• Remember: silence isn’t an answer. And a lack of “no” doesn’t mean “yes”.
• Respect their answer. No means no. Don’t pressure them to change their mind.
• If they aren’t being clear, ask what they mean. That way, you’ll be on the same page.
• If you get consent, be sure to check in regularly to see if everything’s OK.

Giving your consent

• It’s your choice. No one has the right to pressure you into giving consent.
• Set clear and firm boundaries if you give your consent.
• You can always say no. Be clear when you do, especially with someone you don’t know that well.
• Remember that you can withdraw your consent at any time.